My Story
There comes a moment in many lives when the path that once made sense no longer fits — and yet the next one has not fully appeared.
I know this moment well.
For much of my life, I believed the path I was walking was simply “the way things were.” I worked hard, tried to do things correctly, and searched for the right methods for becoming a person who had it figured out. What I discovered instead was something far more interesting.
Again and again, the experiences that changed my life were not the ones I planned or engineered. They arrived when a plan stopped working… when an identity no longer fit… when I was willing, even reluctantly, to question the story I thought I had to live.
It took years — and more than a few unravelings — to realize I wasn’t lost. I was living inside a story I had outgrown.
The work I share now grew out of that discovery.
Over time I began to notice the patterns we all inherit that draw invisible maps — from family, culture, experience, and self-protection. Early in life those maps help us navigate, but eventually many of them become too small for who we are becoming. At that point, we often assume something is wrong with us.
More often, we are standing at a threshold.
I have an unusual way of seeing these thresholds. I notice when a story has reached its natural ending and when something new is quietly trying to begin. I help people name what they already sense but cannot yet articulate, and when that happens, change tends to unfold with far less force than we imagined.
Human Design eventually gave language to this part of me. As a Projector, my gift is not pushing or performing but perceiving — noticing what is out of alignment and gently illuminating another way of seeing.
I don’t help people become someone new. I help them recognize the story they’ve been living… and the deeper one waiting beneath it.
When we can see the invisible maps shaping our choices, relationships, and sense of possibility, something remarkable happens. We stop trying to force life to work and begin participating in it differently.
That is the beginning of what I call The Unexpected Story.
I don’t offer a formula for how your life should unfold. Instead, through my writing and the Dragonfly Path, I offer orientation — a way to understand where you are in your own story and how to move forward without abandoning yourself.
If you find yourself at a crossroads, questioning a life that once made sense but no longer does, you are not failing and you are not behind. You may simply be ready for a different story.
And if it would help to have a steady presence and a lantern along the trail, I’m here.
A gentle place to begin is the Dragonfly Path Guide — a way of understanding the patterns and inner maps shaping your choices, and how to move forward with more clarity and self-trust.
And if something in you recognizes itself in these words — if you find yourself at a turning point and would simply like a thoughtful space to speak it aloud — you’re welcome to reach out.
I offer occasional complimentary conversations for those who feel drawn to them. No preparation, no expectations, and no pressure to become anything other than who you already are.
Sometimes it simply helps to have another human being sit beside you while you look at the map.
